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First Responders
In Loving Memory of David Grodner
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New York
Created September 17th, 2023

Dave Grodner is 37 years old. He is a husband, dog dad, brother, son, uncle, friend, volunteer firefighter just to name a few of his titles. For the last year Dave has been undergoing the fight of his life as he battles stage 4 lung cancer. His wife Danielle has been by his side through it all. He has also luckily had the support of his family, friends, and the fire department. Through a year full of crazy ups and downs Dave has never given up. He is always positive about what is going on around him and tackles each treatment with a smile on his face and the determination to beat this disease. 


Dave's Story:

On October 18, 2022 Dave was diagnosed with Lung Cancer. The next few weeks would be a whirlwind. Ten days after finding the mass on his lung we found that the cancer was also in his brain. He had brain surgery on October 31, 2022 to remove a large tumor. He went through radiation and chemo. He then continued on to have immunotherapy. In March he had a seizure that was caused by radiation necrosis that caused a lot of swelling in his brain. In July his treatment plan changed as we found some new small brain tumors. They were radiated and Dave's treatment plan was adjusted to include new medication that was targeted towards brain tumors. Most recently Dave is again experiencing radiation necrosis in his brain. The tumors dying is causing a lot of swelling on his brain. This is in turn causing Dave to have issues with mobility. His right side is very weak and causes him pain. He is using a walker to get around. 


Unfortunately Dave's fight came to an end on October 15th 2023. He left behind his beautiful wife Danielle and his fur baby Paisely.  

We are hoping this fundraiser will help offset the medical bills and debts that are already existing and will help Danielle as she navigates a life without her husband.  

Updates

October 16th, 2023
The Grodner Family, Organizer

On October 15, 2017 I met the man of my dreams. On October 15, 2023 I was with him as he took his last breath. Dave gave me a love unlike any love I've known before. Honey, thank you for the most amazing six years of my life. I don't know how to put into words how much I love you and how much you changed my life. 

I'd like to thank everyone for their love and support through Dave's battle over the last year. He was home, where he wanted to be, surrounded by his family and his baby Paisely. He is at peace and no longer in pain.


The services for Dave are as follows: 

Viewing at Bethpage FDHeadquarterss

225 Broadway, Bethpage

Wednesday 2-4PM and 6-8PM. Department Services will be at 7PM 

Funeral Service will commence on Thursday at 10AM at Bethpage FD Headquarters with burial to follow at Pinelawn cemetery 

The family will be sitting Shiva 

Friday 11-5

Sunday 1-5

Monday 3-6 


October 8th, 2023
The Grodner Family, Organizer

Dave is in the rehab facility but our goal is to get him home as soon as possible with home care which is not fully covered by insurance!!! All donations will be going to paying for home health aids, accessibility items, and his mounting medical bills. 

October 4th, 2023
The Grodner Family, Organizer

Dave is still in the hospital. Over the next few days he will be transferring to a rehabilitation center while we get full time care squared away so he can return home. We also hope that this will help him regain some of his strength. As always Dave is continuing to fight and to do everything he needs to do to get better. We thank you all for your kindness. 

September 29th, 2023
The Grodner Family, Organizer

Hello everyone. 

Thank you so much for the love and support.  Dave is currently in the hospital recovering from a surgery to remove an infection. He is feeling ok but will be here for a few days while we determine what the next steps will be in his treatment. 

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Karen Campbell
Karen Campbell donated $25

Sorry for your loss. ♥️ UFT Member

11 months ago
Anonymous
Anonymous donated $10

I’m so sorry for your loss. I lost my father to stage 4 lung cancer so I can understand your pain. Sending you love and prayers ❤️

11 months ago
Rachel Bridges
Rachel Bridges donated $10

Sending love from a fellow UFT member

11 months ago
Meredith Mason
Meredith Mason donated $20
11 months ago
Nancy Deignan
Nancy Deignan donated $100
11 months ago
Gavin Skillman
Gavin Skillman donated $100
11 months ago
Anonymous
Anonymous donated $15

I’m so sorry for your loss ❤️ will be thinking of you and your family

11 months ago
Allison Rafferty
Allison Rafferty donated $100

Danielle, Rich and I are so sorry for your loss. It was wonderful meeting and spending time with you and Dave. You are in our thoughts and prayers 💕

11 months ago
Kim O’Rourke
Kim O’Rourke donated $50

❤️

11 months ago
Nicole Lipari
Nicole Lipari donated $25
11 months ago

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